How to understand stress, you will be free from worry throughout your life

    

How to understand stress, you will be free from worry throughout 

Friends, we all know that there is tension in the life of every human being due to one reason or the other, but the thing is, why does this stress come to human beings, why humans feel tension around them in their lives, you must also have stress but Why have you thought about it, what is stress and where does it come from, when you will understand that it is really stress, then there will never be stress in life, in fact we do not have to balance between the situation and the human condition. There is tension when the situation is different and the condition of our mind is different, that is, our mind wants something else, but at the same time the situation becomes something else, when our mind is opposite, then tensions arise in our mचind. Learn to create harmony between the situation and the situation in the mind and those who learn this, their mind is always calm Mercury says that if there is sorrow in our life, there is a solution to sorrow and if there is a solution to sorrow, then there is a remedy for sorrow. Let's find the solution which is suffering in our life i.e. problems, we have to understand it, if there are problems in our life, then there is a solution to these problems, we just have to find the solution, we have to solve the problems or problems in our state of mind. Let us understand it through the story, you have to read the story till the end, then only you will understand the solution to the problem. 

     How to understand through story to get rid of stress and anxiety    

There was a lot of tension in the life of a young man, his whole life was being spent in tension, he felt that he was living only his life but he was living the tension in his life, then that young man was not getting married. 

 He had the tension of his marriage, when he got married, he was still stressed, then he became stressed about money, money, and children were not being born, then his stress increased and he had a child, then his future was There was tension, as his life was full of tension and 

wanted to get rid of all this, then one day he saw some sannyasis, the sannyasi seemed very happy and very happy to that young man. There was no tension on his face. Seeing them, the young man felt that perhaps the life of sannyasins is free from stress, they do not have problems nor live a stressful life, perhaps their life is the best life, that is why that young man left his family and became a sannyasi. Gaya and he went to the Guru's refuge and became his disciple, but there is no tension, there is no city, there is no country to leave, then the problem is over. Often used to be surrounded by tension, leaving his house bar 

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Even after this, a new kind of tension had come in his life, the stress of following the rules of the ashram was the stress of getting education and the biggest stress was that how all the disciples were competing to become knowledgeable by asking for alms. The day went well, then he realized that there was tension in his worldly life and there is tension in his sannyasin life too, then he thought that the tension is in the same place, there is tension in living with family and there is tension in living in the ashram too, so why I wanted to run away from the ashram thinking that I should stay with the family and one day he was running away from the ashram, when his guru saw him and stopped him, then the guru told him that the one from whom you are running away is with you. That what is the use of your running for how long you will keep running, stopped listening to the Guru's saying that he said Gurudev, there was a lot of stress in my life and became a sannyasi to get rid of the same tension, but the tension did not reduce here too, so I I am going into worldly life, the guru said that everything is fine and you can go, but at least you leave this tension and go. If you go with this tension in your worldly life, then what is the use of coming here, the young disciple said, Gurudev, can this happen, is it all possible?

Should I leave the stress from my life then the guru said why not all this can happen but you have to do one thing for this and that job is that you have to find a person who does not have stress in my life by finding him Bring it near then I will free the tension and worry from your life forever, that disciple was very happy after hearing this from the guru and then he went out in search of such a person whose life there is no tension and there is no disappointment.

 Whether there is any concern, he went to

 many cities, went to many villages but did not find a person who is not under stress or who is not worried about anything, everyone becomes serious when he talks about stress and worry and Everyone starts telling the problems of his life in a big way, he tells himself as if there is most worry and stress in his life, he has been from morning to evening but he did not find any person who is free from stress. Then a person said to him that there is such a person on this earth in whose life there is no sorrow, stress and anxiety and that person is an alcoholic, you are a drunken person. Find her and ask her if she has any kind of anxiety, is she having any kind of stress or sadness again after listening to that person went out to find a very big alcoholic who is always drunk then that person is an alcoholic Tells me that I have heard that there is no worry or sorrow in your life, it is not stress, is your life stress free, the drunkard said staggeringly what is stress, what is the name of stress, I do not know and on hearing this the disciple is very much He was happy and thought that the person he was looking for had been found, then the drunk man said, I am only worried about how I will get liquor, from where will the arrangement of liquor be done and how will it be, do you have some money, my wife has taken all the money. Money has been taken away. Do you have anything, he is just surprised to hear that all his happiness immediately vanished.

It got dark in front of him and then sat outside a temple. He was very desperate and frustrated and was wondering if any person in this whole world is free from stress when a small child appeared and that child Said that Guru ji is feeling hungry, he will get something to eat, the one who looked at the child and asked if there is worry and tension in the life of a small child like you, then what will happen to the elders, then the child heard that there is no worry and stress. Hungry, you will get food, he is very happy just listening to the child, as if he has got something big, he immediately took out the food from his pocket and gave it to that child and then he ran to his guru and went to the guru and said That O Gurudev, I have searched a lot but I have not found a single person who is worry free, stress free, there is some anxiety in everyone's life. There is concern about getting the one who does not have love, he is worried about getting love and the one who has, that his love should not be lost, if someone has work then that work Worried about finding work and no one has work He who is sick is worried about when I will be healthy If you are worried about the fact that it will serve in your old age, every person is worried for some reason or the other, in every situation, everyone is living a stressful life, it is not possible to get rid of this stress. Said that why not it is possible to get rid of them but for this you have to do something, then the guru brought some wood and put those wet woods in front of his disciple and told his disciple to set it on fire. Those woods did not catch fire, the disciple said

This wood is wet, how can it catch fire, then the guru said that now how can you set fire in it, then the guru said that what will you do now, will these woods come to happiness or will you sit with worry and stress, will we be relieved from stress and worries? You can dry the wood or after thinking a little, you will bring other dry wood and make arrangements for burning that, the disciple said that Gurudev you are right but Gurudev there is tension in everything in life, why is this the Guru said that life that there is no tension in everything, stress is there inside you, then you worry inside and where anxiety and tension arise, there is no success, the work is not done properly, the mental state is also not right and The work is also not done properly and due to not doing the right work, you go into stress and anxiety. If we go, tension will arise in us or else it will depend on the wood and not I should take tension. I don't know, the guru again said that what we accept, not only dry wood in life, then we already arrange dry wood, if we get dry wood or not, then we all think that we should Why didn't I get dry wood Why did I get wet wood and we try to dry wet wood and not get lost in different imaginary thoughts, we make circles of different concerns that why we did not get dry wood why we Not found, when will we get it and what will happen to me, people who think like this are always under stress, there are some problems in life and we create some problems ourselves, while that problem does not actually happen, the disciple said, Gurudev I Didn't understand anything then Gurudev said why did you leave your family and come here

Then told my guru that there was a lot of tension in my life, the guru told the disciple that there is no tension in your life here, the disciple said yes there is tension here too, then Gurudev said if feelings arise in you about every work that how it will happen how will i do it i want its solution how i will face it i want but i can't But I don't care what will happen to me, where did I get stuck, is this feeling inside you with your family, does this feeling not arise within you in this ashram, the disciple said yes, yes it is exactly the same, Gurudev when I was with the family It was stressful even then and I am still tense when I am here, then the guru said that the problem is not outside, the problem is within us, you have unnecessarily created tension on yourself by thinking imaginary things that will never happen. Thinking you worry, you are under stress, then the guru asked his other disciple to bring milk, that other disciple got a glass. I came with milk, then the guru put that glass in front of him and after some time, looking at that glass, he started getting worried. What is the matter, why are you worried, then the guru said, I am worried about this milk, I am worried that the cat should not spill this milk, so that this milk does not get spoiled or no one should drink it. Hearing the words, the disciple started laughing loudly, he said to Gurudev, what is there to worry about this milk, even if the cat has dropped it or if anyone has gone or fallen, then what will happen, you will get it again, by the way your worry It is pointless to do this because the cat has not spilled this milk and is neither bad nor has anyone drank it and it may not happen in future nor Gurudev smiles after listening to the disciple and said that I should also explain the same. wishing that it is futile to worry about future events that will happen to us 

Whatever happened with you, the day you understand that there is a problem, it also has a solution, but to solve that solution, we have to work and the result is also that there is no tension in your life on that day. The disciple said that Gurudev you are right, I had met a child who told me neither I am stressed nor I am worried, I am only hungry then I could not understand but the problem is hunger, not stress or worry Only hunger can be the solution, but not anxiety or stress. 

         Friends, do not worry without any reason, worrying about what has not happened to you is useless and you work hard for what you want That's why whenever you are worried about something, then meditate while eating, keep your full attention on food while walking, keep your full attention on walking, you will come out of stress to some extent, friends, hope you guys enjoy this story. If you do, then do comment and tell what you learned from it in the comment box.

 Let's try to understand the two aspects of thinking through the story

          

Before trusting anyone, carefully understand it through story           

Please read this carefully before trusting anyone. A Mahatma was giving a sermon to all his disciples in his ashram in the morning, on the completion of the sermon, a disciple asks the Mahatma whether it is wrong to believe in someone on Thursday, is it wrong to do any work as told by someone Mahatma says that faith I should do some work after thinking of myself, then that disciple says, Guruvar, whenever I do any work, then I take advice from my friends about that matter, 

I take any decision according to what they say, all the members of my family do not

 like them. It seems that I am doing unfair, hearing this the Mahatma says that we are older and older than our age and think that we should not take any wrong decision so that later we get hurt, that's why he always says that the disciple after listening to Guruji says But how can it be unreasonable to take someone's advice and believe in it, 

what is wrong in that Mahatma says it is not a matter of unfair or wrong, if you do any work, before believing someone's word, before that you should think whether doing it right is it right how much truth is there in that today i will show you 

 Let me tell a story, it is a request before the story that whatever you will learn, definitely write in two words in the comment and also write Namo Buddha.  

Before trusting anyone, carefully understand it through story                                                                                          

                                            

Once upon a time a person was sitting under a tree in his village, it was summer time, he was resting under that tree in that scorching heat in the cool cool shade, after some time he hears a very loud sound from some distance away. 

 The person suddenly wakes up after

 hearing the sound and starts looking here and there, then suddenly he gets a voice, this time he gets very nervous after hearing the voice, he feels that maybe there is no disaster, he gets nervous thinking that he gets up and runs away from there. 

 It seems that he first goes to his house and tells the people of his family that there is going to be a big disaster here, we should run away from here, those people get nervous on hearing all this and run away with whatever is the same requirement. Seeing him running, the people around him ask what happened to you, why he says, 

I just saw that a big disaster is coming, we

 all will die, we should run away from here, he moves ahead Seeing them running like this, the people around also get nervous and they also start running away with their belongings, similarly the people of the village are surprised to see them running. goes and starts asking him the reason for running away, he tells the people of the village that all of our lives are in danger.

People of the village should run away as

 soon as possible, why are you saying this, then he says that I have seen the disaster, a big disaster is about to come, after hearing all this, the people of the village also get nervous and start running away. 

 Running, they pass by the king's palace, the palace courtier sees all this and is filled with wonder where the whole village is going like this, he immediately goes and tells the king that the whole village is going somewhere, then the king goes to the door. 

 But as soon as the people of the village

 reach the gate of the king's palace, the king stops them. The king sees that everyone is nervous, then he says what happened, why are you all so upset, where are you all going then? They all say that there is going to be a big calamity here, all of our

 lives are in danger, we should go from here or else we will all die, hearing this the king says who said that there is going to be a disaster, then the same person says That I have Maharaj, then the king asks how did you know that disaster is coming, the person says that I have seen him, the king says where have I seen the person says that 

 The king now starts thinking near the

 village tree, he starts running his mind and then he says that let's show me the place where you saw the disaster, listening to this, he takes all the king to that tree and goes there. Later it is said that 

I was resting here when that calamity came, the king says that if you saw him, the person said that he did not see him, I felt it twice, I heard some loud sound which shook the earth.

The king goes to that tree and starts

 walking around. After roaming all over the place, he sees that another big tree nearby is of lemon, on which huge lemons were grown and some lemons were fallen on the ground. Some children were playing near the tree and were plucking the lemon of that tree, as soon as they strike the tree again with a stick, the lemon falls from another tree and in the same way a loud sound is heard on hearing that voice.

 The same person tells the king that, see

 Rajan, the voice is coming again, we should walk from here, now we will not be saved, the king starts laughing, seeing the king laughing like this, all the people of the village say what happened, sir, you are such a serious time. Why are I laughing, you are not worried, the king says that you should worry when there is something to worry about. That, but 

I myself have heard that voice and now all

 of them have heard this, the king takes that person to that tree and beats the tree and makes a noise. On hearing this the lemon falls down, the king says that this is the voice you heard, is it a disaster, is it a disaster? 

 Any work should be done thoughtfully,

 when this person heard this voice, then he should have inspected his surroundings first, then he should have run away. 

 Then there is some rumor but you didn't do this, you took a thoughtless step in the words of this person and everyone got upset. Before taking, once you should think with your own mind whether it is right, whether there is truth in it or not, otherwise you often take wrong steps.

 

That's why one should trust someone

 thoughtfully, the people of the village now understand that they should not do anything without thinking like that and that person also understands that doing something thoughtfully should be said that the Mahatma would say to his disciple after ending the story. It is that now you understand what

 I was trying to tell you, the disciple says, Gurudev, I have understood that a person should do some work after thinking, take advice of someone, but should take a decision after thinking through his own decision. don't believe like that 

            Therefore, it is learned from this

 story that it often happens in our life that when we do some work, we take the advice of others, then his advice must be heard, but the decision should be taken after thinking with ourselves, blindly trusting someone's words. should not

        Let's try to understand the two aspects of thinking through the story

Friends, two sadhus used to live in a village, begging for alms and worshiping for the whole day, both the sadhus used to live together in a hut attached to a border, one day there was a very strong storm in that village

. The two sadhus are going to beg for alms at that time when they come back home, they see that their hut is broken due to the storm and rain storm in the village. That sage says to God that God you always

 do wrong with me, I take your name throughout the day, 

I worship you in the temple, yet you broke

 my hut, there is any enmity with me, do so many thieves and robbers live in this village You did not let anything happen to their houses, I am living here diligently, even then I cannot be seen from me, 

I had only one hut, you took that too from me, why did you do this to me, why did we break the hut of poor sadhus This is your work, we chant your name, but you do not love us, we only want bad, that monk by saying so much starts crying, his anger was still not pacified, he is full of anger, but on the other side he is another sage.     

On the other hand, when the second monk

 comes back after asking for alms, then when he sees the condition of the broken hut, then seeing that which has been broken by the storm, he becomes sad instead of feeling sad and starts dancing, that other monk enjoys and says to God, God today 

I am completely sure that how much he

 loves us, cares so much about us, how much he thinks about our happiness and sorrow, this is why you have saved half of our hut and if not so much In a strong storm, the whole hut would fly away, it is your grace that we still have a place to cover our heads, it is your blessing that we have not become homeless today, but even today we have a place to hide our heads, that other sage comes It says, of course, this is the fruit of my

 worship, from tomorrow I will worship

 you more, my faith in you has increased even more, I have come to know that you are with us even in difficult times, never leave us alone, thank you so much After that the monk starts going inside, then the first monk after hearing all this tells him that you are not angry, God has snatched our only home from us. Did he have anything, he snatched that too, you are thanking him for being angry at 

God What do you mean then the second

 sage says that God has helped us by giving us half a hut, then what to blame for it, then again it starts raining heavily, that sage quickly goes inside then that second sage says to the first sage 

 Have seen that even if this hut was not

 with us, then where would we go now, no one even gives us shelter, we used to keep getting wet until another hut is built, but today we have half a hut, due to which we are able to cover our heads.

 Having heard this, the first monk realizes his mistake, he understands that whatever happens happens for good, we just have to have some patience and wait for the result.       

           Friends, we get education that how

 we two people saw the same event from different perspective, how different they thought from each other, where one was mourning the loss of the house and the other was happy with nothing. Was celebrating, always keep in mind that our thinking decides our future, our world will change only when our thinking changes, what happens to us as we think, our thinking will be like the previous sage, then we see a lack in everything. Will come and we will always express the reason of being happy and sad and time will pass, whereas if we think like other sages, then we will see good in everything, we will start smiling even with sadness. 

                          

                         Therefore, like other sages, we should keep our thinking positive even in the most difficult situation, friends, what have you learned, please tell by commenting.                  

                                            Thankyou friends 

   

Which mind will remove all the confusions Gautam Buddha 

Which mind will remove all the confusions Gautam Buddha 

    This mind will remove all the confusion of the mind, let us try to understand it through a short story. Hey Tathagata, why did this happen to me,

 Budha asks, O king, tell me what happened like this, then that king says that after many years a child was born in my house, how much penance came into my life after worshiping and praying How happy

 I was, but then my happiness was eclipsed and after a few years my son left me, why did this happen to me, now you tell me how should I forget him, saying this the king starts crying loudly and his When Mercury falls at his feet, he says, take care of yourself, 

 

Which mind will remove all the confusions Gautam Buddha 

Rajan, by being sad like this, you will not get anything by losing courage, put it, if it happens to anyone, then only gives him nothing but sorrow, listening to 

Mercury's words The king says that who said that it is the cause of sorrow, I do not agree with you at all, the king tells Mercury that you want to say this 

 That I have invited misery for myself by keeping my son engaged, then Mercury says, I am saying that love and love only

 hurts the person, the king says that I do not agree with you, love and If applied, it gives a feeling of happiness and happiness.  The king starts insulting 

Mercury in the meeting and says look how much you all believe in them, believe in their words and how they

 are giving wrong instructions to all of us, if you listen according to them then you will do more. 

 Will get away from his family too, the king further says that he himself is a hater, what will the children understand

 the misery, they do not answer anything of the king and become silent, the king tells Mercury that I had come to you thinking

 that That you will ease my pain, but you are only making my son the cause of my pain,

 I did not expect this from you, even then Tathagata Buddha was listening to his words silently, after his silence says that

 now you If you are in misery, you will not be able to understand my words, the king says that I do not want to understand

 anything from you now, nor do I want to hear anything, saying this in anger and leaving from there, when the king reaches the palace, then there is a lot of anger.

 He lives in his room. The king's wife was very impressed by Mercury from the beginning. She was his disciple. Before marriage, 

he used to listen to Buddha's teachings. She used to go to his meetings, so she

 understood every word of Buddha very well. Seeing his wife, the king also went to the shelter of Buddha. 

 What happened today you are looking very angry then he tells his wife that you are very much influenced by Mercury, you are not his

 disciple and your Buddha told our son the reason for our misery, he doesn't know anything only wrong He gives sermons to the people,

 listening to the king, his wife says what happened that Buddha said so, then the king says that today I had gone thinking that meeting Mercury would reduce my sorrow but he would have told me only. Huh, 

If you feel sad, tell me what does it mean that my son was wrong, the king's wife understands what Buddha had said to the king, but the king understood the opposite meaning of what Buddha said, then she told the king Explains 

Rajan, tell me how much you love me, the king says that now you have nothing except you, you are the only reason for my happiness. The king says

, I can hardly tell this, after losing a son, you are the only one, then the queen says, then put your love towards me and apply it is not the reason for 

your sorrow if I am not with you tomorrow If you stay, you will not be sad, the king says that it will happen, then the king's wife says that this is what Mercury wanted to explain to you that love hurts you more than anyone, today apply more than our son, there is more love The king, who is not letting us forget, after listening to his wife, understands everything clearly and clearly, the wife says that even Buddha was trying to explain this to you. If nothing else, then the king realizes his mistake and the next day he goes to her in the ashram near Budh and goes before him and again in front of the full assembly and asks for forgiveness from the way he had insulted him. That this Tathagata you were right, I did not understand you, I am sorry, Mercury says that you should not put so much on anyone that he forgets to live your life, along with all your duties, you have a duty to yourself. You have to think about yourself too, but it should not be difficult for you, King understands the point of Mercury and returns with his blessings.

Friends, we learn from this story of Gautam Budh that at any time in life, be it any thing or any creature, one should never put more than one's limit, because loving someone more than the 

limit, it will make it difficult for you to keep it. Maybe then at a time you come to that situation that you get bored with your own life and give up the search for life, 

you are not told that do not love and attachment, living within a limit and in a circle Stay and do those who do not create problems for you. Once Mahatma Budh was preaching to all the disciples in his ashram that then one of the disciples started asking him that Gurudev

, I want to ask you a question, the guru says ask whatever the child You have to ask, then that disciple asks, how can a person, Gurudev, overcome the disturbance and disturbance happening within himself and experience a peace, can someone else help us, then Guru Budh says to his disciple that you have asked the question. Very rightly asked boy, but to answer this question of yours, I will tell you a story to hear from it. After that all of you will get the answer to all your questions related to it yourself.

       It was a long time ago that a king used to live in a city, he had a lot of money, his house was filled with gold and silver, there was no shortage of anything, that king was living such a comfortable life, but despite everything, the king was restless.

 His mind was not stable nor was he happy, he was not even paying attention to his subjects because of his disturbed mind, slowly the time progressed, the 

king's mind remained restless in this way, he did not pay attention even in the meeting, the whole city At one point in time, the news spread that the 

 king's attention is not in the royal court, he is lost in his own world, when the king's minister came to know about this, then he explained a lot to the king that he should pay attention to his power or else everyone Some will turn against them, then the king says, 

I want that I should be busy in my work, but my mind does not go that way, always restless, listening to the king, the minister says that if you are so sad from within, your mind is upset. If you are restless, I will tell you a solution for this, it will definitely work, the king asks what is the remedy, then the minister says that a

      Mahatma has his own hut far away in the forest of the city. He remains very scholar, people from far and wide go to him to solve his problem, you also go to him and talk once, pay attention to what he says, you will definitely get the result by obeying the king minister. The next morning, he goes to the forest alone in the morning without saying anything to anyone. 

Reaching there, he sees that the Mahatma is resting under a tree outside his hut in the cool shade and there is no one around him, he is completely alone, he goes to the 

 Mahatma and bows to him, seeing the king, the Mahatma says that hey How did Rajan come, the king comes to the

 Mahatma and tells him, O Mahatma, I am a king, I have everything, there is no shortage, but still I am restless from inside, 

                                   I do not understand why it is so, you have some solution to this problem of mine. Tell me, after listening to the king, the Mahatma says that I will tell you a solution, but

 before that you will have to stay here with me, will you be able to do what the king says is necessary Mahatma ji, and stays

 there the whole day the Mahatma does not say anything to the king and his He is busy

 with meditation and other tasks in the evening when his disciples come, then he

 prepares the food, now where the king eats different types of dishes but when the plate of food comes to him then he is surprised to see that How would a king do this food, in

 fact, the dry food kept in the king's food was served, the same Mahatma was good for himself. The king was sitting down to eat with a plate, he did not like seeing this, he

 left after saying nothing and after eating a little, the next morning the king got up and was walking, he sees that all the disciples are busy in their work. After the Mahatma teaches them, he gives sermons and after that he goes back to the city to give knowledge. But  

He first sits in meditation, the Mahatma himself sits under the cool shade of the tree and asks the king to sit in the sun. In anger, he tells the Mahatma that you should take

 care of yourself, I should return. But here I didn't get anything except sorrow and I had to sleep hungry stomach to get hurt, it

 would have been better if I didn't even come here, Mahatma started laughing after listening to that king. Goes and says what is the reason behind this laugh, then the

 Mahatma says that your words Rajan you are saying that it is in vain to come here, you feel that yesterday you slept hungry stomach and sat in the sun today but what You tried to understand what I wanted to explain to myself with this, the king says

 whether or not the Mahatma says that what is the reason for doing all this? The reason was just that I wanted to explain to you that just as sitting in my cool shade will not reduce your share of sunlight, just as eating my good food cannot fill your stomach, you cannot give this dissatisfaction, in the same way I want to tell you this. Nothing will 

 happen even if there is restlessness within you, then you have to remove it yourself and you can do that on your own, knowing the reason for all these things happening inside you, why are you also sad from inside, why are you restless about all this Because you can know yourself by looking inside yourself,     

                                           you will be able to understand yourself better than others and then all your problems will be solved, once try to see from inside yourself, listening to the Mahatma, the king realizes that he should understand himself. only then will he know the truth  

And will be able to remove this inner confusion, no one can do anything depending on the other, always keep in mind that whatever you are, you have everything is the result of your hard work, in the same way, you can do sadhana

 tomorrow with effort. Only you can bring peace within yourself, then you do not need me or anyone else, you yourself will achieve peace by your own hard work and sadhana, hearing all this from the

 Mahatma, the king understands everything and then he will say to him about all his words. and then he goes back to the palace, so after the completion of this story, he says to his disciples that now all of you must have got the answers to your questions, I just want to tell them that the person

 himself is good by himself. Like knowing and understanding what is in his mind, when a person's own spiritual practice removes his inner turmoil, restlessness Since then very much impressed by the teachings of Buddha 

                        

                      Therefore. This story teaches that a person can find any confusion, problem, restlessness or assam mind within himself, no one else, just you have to look within yourself once, then you will get all the solutions.     

                                             Friends, what did                      you learn, do tell by commenting                                           

                                         Thank you 

Read before falling in love with someone else you will regret

 Must read before falling in love with someone else you will regret 

Hello friends I am Durga Kumar welcome you guys in this lesson

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Of dit nou 'n meisie of 'n seun is, voordat jy in die saak van iemand se liefde leer, moet jy dit een keer lees of anders sal jy spyt wees daaroor.

Vandag se mense is lief, hulle doen baie in die naam van liefde maak, 'n seuntjie moes 'n meisie gesien het en vandag se minnaar, 'n vriend van my het saam met die meisie gekom en gesê broer, ek is baie lief vir hierdie meisie Lees almal waar ek lief is, broer toe sê hy broer, ek wil trou, ek het gesê en gesê dat my ma nie gereed is nie, ek het gesê wanneer ma nie gereed is nie, moenie dit doen nie, ek het gesê dat ek met hierdie meisie sal trou, ek het gesê dat wat sal gebeur met jou ma, sy het gesê dat ek my ma sal verlaat en na 'n ander stad sal gaan, ek het na daardie meisie gekyk en gesê, suster, dink wat gaan met haar ma gebeur, hoeveel dae sal sy by jou wees wat haar ma kan verlaat Hy kan jou ook los, moenie jou karakter bederf in die kring van sulke valse seuns nie, meisies vandag 12, 12 jarige meisies weet nie hoe om ronde roti te maak nie, maar deesdae is dit goed om lief te wees vir susters en dogters.Kom ons doen dit liefde, iemand het gesê dat ek lief is vir jou, dan skryf en stuur hulle dit ook, ek is lief vir jou om ons ook te vat, ek hou daarvan om nou te gaan Ek maak nie ronde brood nie, liefde kom goed, seuns kan nie hul selfoon met hul eie geld herlaai nie, dit gaan goed met liefde, my susters, geen seun of meisie is lief vir jou nie, lief vir jou pragtige liggaam lief vir jou met jou behoeftes en jou behoeftes

be the queen of jhansi for self defense The highest value of character in this world Is 

And after fulfilling the lust of the body, after fulfilling the hunger of the body, he will leave you, will spoil your character, will spoil your world, will spoil you, will make you slander, leaving your parents in the quagmire of shame or slander, we will go on living life to the fullest. I will have to say that my daughter, my son did such a wrong thing, so it is good to die as if it is not good to play with my character. People will listen, show you a little stuff, if you come and show it a little, then what is the fun of looking at a boy by raising his eyes, that's why my sister daughters, today you have to become the queen of Jhansi, if you want to save your character, then the queen of Jhansi can stick with sticks. Learn to wield sword, I don't know when for self-defense I don't know when these things are needed. Teach girls to dance and karate, sticks for self-defense, swords, karate, and what's bad, let the daughter do self-defense, sword sticks for hands to become tall Learn to run karate, what's wrong with it, want to learn yes or not, daughters today are afraid of cockroaches and run away from rats so be careful on flowing character some boy loves you no one loves you love your beautiful body

To make a bad character, one has to take the next birth, it cannot be improved in this birth. 

The clothes will get stained, but sisters, it will be dusted, but once the character is spoiled, then the next birth will have to be taken to make the character spoiled, it cannot be improved in this life, so your character is the most important, your character is the most valuable on this earth. We have character, that's why someone says that if we love, then there is no love, first complete studies, today's girls go to college, fall in love with a boy and get married, mother here, poor father is wearing slippers here Two is saving money, daughter is dreaming of marriage and daughter daughter or son got married, what will happen to your old father, have you ever thought, hears many times that daughter has done court marriage love marriage, father gets attacked. I know that the one who trusted my daughter so much, she deceived, think that when daughters betray their father, which father will believe in which daughter, if the daughter does not lose the trust of the father from the sons, somewhere on talking to the sons Don't lose faith, tell me on this earth a father, a mother, on whom do you trust the most? Is it true on his daughter and one on his son, every parent believes in their sons daughters and daughters believe in sons and only the son should leave his father, the son marries as per his choice. I do not say that you should not marry according to your choice, hey girl likes a boy, tell your mother once, tell your father that we like this girl, we like this boy, say neither parents will see Inquiry Will investigate if it feels good then we will get married

Dillagi gave the air a little smoke and the fire burnt your friendship turned into love 

Nowadays my sisters and daughters heard what is happening in this era, it is such a thing that nowadays girls fall in love and the boy whom they talked to, later came to know that starting from Facebook and ending in WhatsApp, I say a proverb. Dil lagi gave the wind a little smoke and the fire started burning, your friendship turned into love, nowadays boys and girls first make friends, then their friendship turns into love and then the same love turns into misdeeds Starts from Facebook It ends in WhatsApp, you must have eaten Chingum, like people chew and spit on those girls, they spit on such girls by exploiting you, they will smoke you like Chingum, so somewhere you I am explaining to all the sisters and daughters as brothers, so that no wrong person gets in their hands, this is Kaliyug, so today this is Kaliyuga, so today the Ganges is flowing in reverse, the son is stumbling to the parents, then there was only one Ravana. Sita Now Ravana is stealing Sita in every street, this is Kalyug, the Ganges is flowing in reverse, sisters of India, with you. Be careful because husbands are also making Rakhi with their own hands, nowadays even a sinner who sees Rakhi with dirty eyes also comes to test on the pretext of getting Rakhi made by you, so nowadays in the society who speaks to you, brother is on them too. It is not good to believe, so trust should be done with great care.

One is a bar, one is a diamond.

Girls often accuse their parents that our parents are very biased. Why have you been late, where did you go, what were you doing, with whom did you go, often we ask a lot of questions, not like sisters. One is that the bar is lying in the shop and it is outside the shop, it must have been seen that the bar which is outside the shop gets rusted in it, there is a diamond, there is a diamond in a diamond shop, it is inside the shop and that too It happens inside the vault, if there is a rust in the bar, then ₹ 1 will be sold for ₹ 2 less, but if the diamond cracks even a bit, it doesn't sell. Dear sisters, you have got a stain on your character, a slight creak has come, neither will you stay at home nor even the slightest bit of ghat gets your fingers up on your character, then it becomes difficult for girls to get married in the society then 20, 20 year old girls Why do you get 50-50 years old people, why it is the fault of deteriorating your character, it was also seen in the society that 20 20 year old girls had to marry 50, 50 years old man, why had to do it in compulsion because it was 20 years That girl ran away with a boy a year ago, then returned after 2 months, now neither can she become his wife, now she is there again, now who will marry you, then someone will get A 50 year old old man, when his life is not passing, then let's get the girl, he will take you, then your whole life will become hell, there will be no dreams, you will have no happiness, your family will be over before you start

We are residents of India, this land is the land of sages, this is the land of Rama and Krishna, here is the origin of character

That's why you do society is like Hey Japan America London Those people take off their clothes and take bath in the sea, then will we imitate them, their character is the tradition there, they take bath like this but we are Indian people anyway America In America, there are no marriageists in America, but, as many days as you want, staying with this man is filled, he is satisfied with staying with the third, if he is satisfied with the third, then there is no restriction with the fourth- There is no barrier, there is no restriction for girls to change 10 men or for men to change 10 women, we are residents of India, this is the land of sages, this is the land of Ram and Krishna, here is the origin of character, there are 200 countries in the world, almost less If it is more, then you see that the whole world is 200 countries, lift up the whole 200 countries and see that there are as many characterful people as there are in our country, there is no such character in any country of the world in our India, if the wife's husband dies, then the wife becomes the widow of that person. spends the whole life, does not think about other men, if young girls become widows, then the whole life will be theirs. She devotes her mind to God because we are Indians, this is the tradition of India, we are Indians, take care of yourself and it is the responsibility of every parent, you teach your daughters, write, make yoga and Keep giving rites of character to daughters and sons. Boys and girls run away, your lack is that you have not given your child sanskars, what happens nowadays, nowadays children see dirty dirty pictures in TV with their eyes, then listen to dirty dirty things then eat dirty dirty food If you eat meat etc., you will eat dirty, if you hear dirty, then all will be dirty, then your thoughts will also be dirty, therefore, see God with your eyes, hear the story of God with your ears and only take God's prasad with your mouth, you should eat it after offering food. If it is pure, then your thoughts will change, do something like this sister daughters, your father, your society, your village, your state, your country can be proud that these are the daughters of our country, thank you

We are residents of India, this land is the land of sages, this is the land of Rama and Krishna, here is the origin of character.

Understand man's biggest mistake or else you will repent

Understand man's biggest mistake or else you will repent

    

 Hello friends, I am going to tell a lesson to you people Durga Kumar, so that a lesson for happiness, peace and prosperity in your life.I am writing what is behind you all Leave it, happiness will run after you, let's try to understand

I have seen a lot by doing but there is no happiness in life what to do or where does happiness reside.🪔🪔🪔

Have seen a lot, but there is no happiness in life, what to do, tell me the address of where this happiness resides, maybe we also get happiness, the whole world is behind happiness running back but no one is happy And happiness sometimes comes in life, that is also not real because you feel that happiness because before you were living in misery, it wants the same as sorrow.So At the same time, in the same situation, you start experiencing happiness, a husband and wife are waiting for a child for years.They have everything, they don't have a child, that's why they show all the happiness and sadness, but one day they get a child, then they experience the object and after some time Sadness about expenses and sometimes misery for children, quarrel among themselves about work Then they forget the happiness they get from that child and catch the misery, similarly the whole world runs after happiness, the world gets happiness and leaves it and catches sorrow.Because this happiness is to be yours, how happy you can be, even people so also get

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Those who say that my existence is a misery, he has made the happiness he is getting from his arrival into sorrow.

Because it is thought that there is only one reason why we spend our happiness in finding out Are you looking for in others, can other people give you happiness?They have ever given you happiness. Are you happy with the people around you, search within yourself that you will find that you are unhappy with the people around you at some point or the other Even if there is happiness by being, it is only the sorrows caused by them.But they do this only about the sorrows caused by them, you must have heard many people saying that I am out of life. I have lost, now there is no way, all are useless, what have these people lost, in fact all of them have lost something and whatever they have lost is theirs.was too big for life and what was that and their happiness and where it was not in them but it was hanging on something And whatever is outside, it only gives sorrow until you recognize the happiness within you, a person was very troubled by many sorrows in his life, as we all are people. If there is no sorrow in life, then what is the problem, because then there is no happiness to be found.There is no need to pray or find God, tantra mantra, witchcraft nor miracles are needed Then why would a husband and wife fight among themselves or a master and a servant or why would a country and a foreign country fight, but all this happens because there is suffering because of misery, and there is a reason and there is a solution to it and since If redress is found, then one gets freedom from false misery and happiness.

💯Most of the sorrows that come in our life are false.💥💥💥💯

Most of the sorrows or pleasures that come in our life are false, that person was also very upset with the sorrows of his life, wanted to get rid of his sorrows, so it happened 1 day to a guru and told the guru my There is a lot of sorrow in life, it seems that I should die, I am not able to handle this sadness can you end my sorrows Guru smiled and Guru said that I will take away your sorrow Can't end it because I can't see your suffering The reason for your sorrow and its redress can only be you, the person said, but how will I do it And he began to find out the cause of sorrows one by one, after a day he returned to Guruji and he said Guruji I have found the reason for my sorrow Guruji said very good and what is the reason the person said my wife who does not listen to me and does not listen My children who never listen to what I say My friends who never help me as I say My master who cuts me for no reason My neighbor does not even increase the salary, who keeps showing new things to burn and keeps talking to me by showing them the guru said, come on, you have found the reason, now find the solution to your misery And when you get the solution, then come and tell me, that person left from there and started looking for the solution of his sorrows, he looked at all the problems one by one, looked at all the sorrows and solved them and went to the Guru. Reached back near and told Guruji, I have found the solution to my sorrows Guruji said what is that remedy The person said that my wife should start obeying and talk properly in front of me, my children should now start obeying me and my friends should give me full respect and give importance to my words, my boss is my boss. Praise the work and increase my salary also my neighbor doesn't have more money than me and he doesn't buy any new clothes and if he buys he don't show me or i have more money than him i give him new new clothes Buy things and show them which they could not buy Guruji said now,When you have come to know the cause of your misery and the solution to your happiness, and now you have found the solution to the cause of your misery, then go and convert your sorrows into happiness.How can it be that whatever plane I told is impossible to be, tell me something like that if all this is possible, tell me any mantra, any tantra or any method, the guru said but what you want to prevent but I am like this Can't do anything, said the person, but Guruji, I have heard that the tantrik who lives in the crematorium can do everything, can make my master's mind good, can shut my wife's tongue. my children my friend my neighbor can arrange money to come to me my friend my neighbor my children can walk according to my mind to him There is such a method that gives some food and drink, so that everyone starts obeying me, the guru said, have you done all this The person said no but I have heard from the people that my neighbors do not even go, my friends do not go, even my wife secretly goes to that tantrik, the guru said hey your problem how easy it is to solve so what are you doing to meReached the guru and said to the guru, Gurudev, I have done a lot and there is no benefit here.You put an end to the sorrows or I should give my life, the tantrik robbed me, took a lot of resources, but the situation is as it is Even today, I am saddened by the sadness, the guru started smiling loudly and said that there is suffering in this world, but we do not recognize our sorrow, we do not recognize the sorrow, if we do not know its cause, then there is no solution. Learn to recognize your sorrows the person said and what should I do for this Guruji Guruji said go and see the people because of which There is sorrow in life, is there any sorrow in his life, that person went home and asked his wife that now you have any sorrow in your life. If you start believing, then I do that the life of both of us will become heaven, that person goes to his children and asks the children, children, is there any sorrow in your life, the children said yes our life I am sad and it is because of you if you stop interrupting in our life and let us do what we want to do then our life will be filled with happiness The person asked his friend if you have any sorrow because of me Friend said yes there is sorrow in our life because of you because you do not listen to us, do not respect us and we speak not that  They don't believe what we say and start arguing then that person went to his neighbor and before asking anything a voice came that he heard that his neighbor was talking don't know how is our neighbor He doesn't care about us, how can he be happy, we have so much and we are sad, he is so happy. 

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Tantric robbed me, took a lot of means but the situation is like this

Go and get rid of your sorrows, that person left from there and reached that tantrik And the tantrik took meditation and told some of his methods and some rituals, some mantras, some food and drink, B asked to do some action in the crematorium, as the tantrik said, the prostitute did three back after a month There is something and we are sad, how can he be happy even in such a little, then he comes to know that his neighbors are sad because of his happiness while he himself is sad Then he did not even dare to go to the master, then he reached the guru and said to the guru, Gurudev used to think that people are the reason for my misery, but now I came to know that I am the cause of people's misery. Society did not come, the guru said, in fact, we have become the reason for each other because we have started depending on others happiness and sorrow, if the wife talks with a good smile, then we become happy if we agree.If children follow what we say, they feel happy and if they follow their words, then we become sad.If someone praises us, then we feel happy, when someone does evil to us, we become sad immediately. Wow, you can make us feel as you want, if you leave things now, are there sorrows in your life, that person said a lot that he thought a lot that where not, he has no sorrow but can you

Asking everyone to leave, the guru said come with me, the guru put that person in front of a mirror.The guru who brought me said, do you see everything clearly in this mirror, can you see yourself clearly, the person said yes everything is clearly I I can see myself clearly, the guru said now go bring a bowl full of dust, the person has dust in the bowl Bring it full The person brought dust in the bowl, the master took out some dust from the bowl and said, this is the sorrow that your wife is giving you and why are you late for your wife, and saying this, she looked at the dust in the mirror.The guru raised the dust again and said this is the misery your children are suffering and threw that dust again on the mirror Guru guru picked up the dust again and said this is the misery your master has given you The guru raised the dust saying about neighbors and friends and many sorrows and threw it when he came and finally said to the person are you looking in this mirror Can you see yourself in the mirror, the person said no, the mirror is full of dust, nothing is visible Gurudev said, our sorrows are also like this, they cover us in this way that we are completely broken, we do not see anything, our mind cannot see itself, just keep looking at the sorrows and see how

The dust of sorrows that has settled in the mirror of the mind, but in reality you are like this dust of us, whenever we speak unnecessarily, we get angry, do not understand others, keep running on our own, argue, satisfy our ego keep doing everything to do

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The mind is never clear, just look at this mirror

And forget Mohan, like this dust flies on the top and it covers you and you fall into such misery and it is not that the dust does not go away whenever the wind of happiness blows, the dust is removed but you of Has raised so much dust that if one dust is removed, then the other sits, the mind can never be cleared, just clean this mirror and see that person cleaned the mirror, the guru said what is visible now The person said that everything is clearly visible and said to Gurudev, then where did Gurudev remove the dust of your sorrows?So you can clearly see that you are not that person, you are unhappy, you are looking for happiness in others outside, while outside there is conflict where there is conflict.There is anger where there is anger there is ego and where there is ego there is misery.Look at yourself sometimes, that person understood the point of the group and after saluting the guru, he left from there, after that he listened to his wife, listened to his children, listened to his friends and neighbors And listened to the owner too but did not get distracted by the things, he solved his problem by laughing, there is something similar in our life, our sorrow is because of us or people are born always due to entanglement with others.If we recognize the misery within us, then whatever the situation may be outside, happiness is always visible and if there is sorrow within us, even if happiness is raining outside, only sorrow will be seen.There is only one way to avoid many sorrows and it is that the inner silence which is silent from within, the outer sorrows cannot disturb it, so you If no one listens to you, then you get angry, you create such misery around you and you also enjoy making sorrow and then say that I am very sad, want sympathy, small children Just like there is a happiness in sympathy, this is what you need, but everyone needs this, so no one gets it, so wake up your inner silence and solve the confusion in unnecessary things, make life simple and calm.

 The partner who used to know before doesn't even talk to you anymore❤️❤️💯⭐

The partner who used to kill earlier, does not even talk from now on

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What is the reason for such a kiss and how can we fix this kissing, make the partner again what he used to do everything for us So today's lesson is very important whether you are a boy, it is a girl or husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend, it is equally for everyone.Just read carefully and feel your feeling, mix it with yourself and see where you meet So this lesson is not going to be very beneficial so let's start the lessonand try to understand When the partner loved you a lot or used to kill you and the same partner loved youhesitates to talk If you do not duck properly or do not want to do it, then you become unhappy with this act.And you people start thinking that why this happens with me, my luck is bad, my time is running out.Must have done something or black magic or someone must have done something to Tantrik Baba or someone third must have come between us, someone third must have come between us, you think in this way while your thinking is wrong Whereas you should think in this way that the partner who used to rob us of life She doesn't even talk to us, so why is it so good, what is the reason why you first Whenever bad happens to you, you become sad about that thing.You start thinking bad and bad about him but never focus on the reason which is your real job to find out Karan.Only then you will get the solution, then only you will get the chance, then only you will be like this.Will you be able to correct the chisevation first we will focus on the reason why this has happened Have you ever asked yourself this thing or not, then today if I tell you that it is 100% your fault then you will feel bad.But friends, this is true and it is true that the fault is yours. you believe everything is right everything will be right If a partner loved you so much that he was ready to kill you, he was ready to do everything And if that partner does not want to talk to you even now, then it means Man cause 100%It's you, it's only you, it's the truth, isn't it a very bitter truth?But the sooner you sieve this sweetness, the sooner you You will find a way, you will get a chance to improve yourself

I'm telling you the reason now What could have happened to you, what could have happened, what could have happened

(1)  ❤️⭐⭐⭐  ️️First mistake here ️❤️⭐⭐

 When any partner starts liking someone very much, then he is very much Gets overconfident, he feels that now whatever I say, the partner will do the same.Meaning we have got complete remote control in our hands, this kind of over confidence comes. Its throws make all the other mistakes, this is the biggest mistake when the partner who likes too much loves too much Kills life immediately after that the big mistake is that you people are too much Start controlling, suddenly start controlling too much don't do this don't do that don't go here don't go there As if we ban from all sides as if we think that now we have full rights But here is the biggest mistake

(2) ❤️here comes the second mistake❤️

here comes the second mistake What do you upgrade, you reduce your self-worth, you stop doing all the things because in you Over confidence has come, no matter what happens now, neither partner Will die without me Now I have become bindas, become free and whatever you used to work on you stop doing all the things, this is your biggest mistake, it is a mistake.And friends, when you love your partner very much, they are very much dependent on you, they spend their lives, what do you do at that time, you understand it as your right and they become very happy thinking about it.Are You become arrogant that a beautiful partner like this, having money like this or whoever is your partner's The quality that such a good partner is absolutely crazy for me This is a thought that gets created, what happens in the mind of you people that you consider

them as your right and you start occupying it, if this is related to

(3)Points  you do it a lot ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💥❤️❤️❤️❤️

that you increase too much to stop him if he is going somewhere asking you because he is in love with you isn't he,That's why I won't go by asking you but you refuse, don't go I don't like it, don't do this, why are you doing this, why are you talking to him, why are you talking to him?Why are you doing this, why are you doing this, then you do not increase the level of inhibition, you put many restrictions on it.What do you do, you start saying that if you do this, then I will not talk to you or I will leave you and go away like this you You start threatening him and put many restrictions on him, you create a mountain of restrictions, you impose many conditions on him, do this only then will I love what will I do If you do this, I will take you for a walk, do this only then I will talk, that means you start thinking that if I do not talk to whom, then it will hurt or shudder. If I do not go for a walk with it, then I will be sad immediately, then we start taking advantage of this thing.Which is called taking illegitimate advantage and this is all the mistake you keep on making, what happens to

it, why it comes in the mistake of number for 

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(4) Which is the mistake of number 4, it becomes the biggest❤️❤️❤️💥

Which is not the mistake of the fourth number, it becomes the biggest mistake and it is a big form of all the small mistakes and what is this mistake, you are forced to think about it.If you do that his decision is wrong, he starts feeling that He has chosen the wrong person, is killing a wrong person because he It is not worthy of love, you force yourself to think, then only a chisevation comes, then you have to cry and say that the partner who used to kill me earlier He doesn't even want to talk to me now, so such a chisevation Create yourself, do it with your own hands, it is called digging your own grave with your own hands or what else will you have to do first thing if HOYOFO Makeup Bags for Women Large Cosmetic Bags with Brush Holders Travel Make up Bag, Orange Daisy

someone's relationship is going on like this Whose partner kills his life, neither this lesson is most important, don't make all these mistakes that I told you Do not make mistakes at all, otherwise you will also become such a woman, very soon when you will feel how much this partner has changed, now do not even talk to meThis is not to be done at all, now suppose you have such a stage that you haveIf you have already made a mistake, but you have already done the whole Ramayana scandal and the partner Has stopped talking right away or does not want to talk at all So the same incident has happened right there, what to do now, how to fix it now, how to fix it as before, but how to know in the next state

(5) So let's know how to fix it❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

So let's try to understand how we fix it What is there right now, take a gap from today itself, take a long look, make a distance with the one who is trying to talk everything while he is not agreeing to talk,You are calling again and again, you are messaging again and again, you are calling again and again and again and again trying to talk on the phone, are you not?Are you trying to meet again and again? take some gap stop doing all these things you were doing you have to take a gap if you are not taking gas You are thinking any way, neither I am telling nor your whole way will be done again, if you have done all these mistakes then you will have to take a gap here Take a gap of how many days you want, whether it is 3 days 5 days 7 days 10 days 15 days 20 days 1 month 2 months 3 months, provided how old your relationship is, how new and what Chisvation you that Gap will have to be taken according to the taste and if and if your relationshipChisavation of both of you has become very bad, so many times people have to take a gap of 1 month to 3 months, you will decide how is the condition of both of you.Both of you will have to take the gap happily, and according to both of you, this play will not happen, otherwise in some way You will not be able to handle the relationship, you are going towards breakup, you have to take a gapyou have to take the gap After the second gap you are starting, how do you have to start at that time I am telling that neither do you have to apologize, forgive me whatever mistakes happened in so many days, neither do you have to cry or neither killThat someone has come in your life without talking to me, it has been 15 days or a month, you live without me You don't have to do all these things, you don't have to complain about anything, what do you have to do when you are after such a gap, no matter how many days you have taken the gap, whether you want 10 days 20 days 30 days a mother 3 months gap If so, if he wants to talk to you, then you have to talk normal, it should seem that nothing has happened between the two of you, it is absolutely normal to talk.But he would like you to apologize to him and beg cry for a minute You don't have to do anything like a friend, you have to be patient and you have to think that a new relationship is being made now. Behaving like this what will happen in a few days about the person, which I used to think is wrong, but this person is not so wrong either.And this is the right part, I have probably done it right by selecting it and running the processes continuously until this idea comes.If very well, if you can run this process very well, then very soon you realize Whether or not you have made a mistake by choosing the right partner and you, when this one Chisvation will come in his mind, then again sweetness will come in the relationship of both of you, but apart from this, whatever technique you are thinking, it will not work, try and see, I have told you the solution. If you implement from then 100% result will come thank you everyone, if you like it then share it

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Today we will know in these ways to what extent the partner loves you, the partner loves us, he also makes us feel that he loves us but today we will know in this lesson that your partner Kitna loves and how is love thank you everyoneI am d,s love problem solve today in this lesson We are going to know and clear that your partner loves but how much he loves Today we will know from these 3, three dates, to what extent they love and what is its level To what extent does he love and to which date and where does he see you, let's start the lesson now let's know there is a way By which you can know how much your partner loves you, suppose when such a problem comes between you two.So who takes the initiative next, takes care of Chisweson, and because of thatIt helps to maintain the relationship, if today he said that today we have to go out, then we have to go.Both of these shows, who runs in your relationship and who is afraid, because it is very important, sometimes we start saying yes to the partner, if he said that tomorrow you have to call.Tomorrow, you call, if he said that tomorrow is my holiday, tomorrow I can't talk to you or I can't talk to you then you have to believe this is love

(1)If your partner is angry with you and the fault is yours, this also happens sometimes.That partner's fault is there, and she sits angry after putting a mistake on you, then I am not speaking in this discussion. If it is really your fault, something wrong has been said to you or you have done something wrong that has made your partner angry.So you have to say swari in the first point because if your mistake and and you are sorry you are sorry If you do not speak, then it is not going to work here, if it is the partner's fault then you should never say sorry because If in partner's mistake you will say sorry Never partner will realize his mistake in life that he can also make a mistake, he will feel that all the mistake is because of you,so confirm one thing right away yes The mistake has happened from your side, you are also at fault, you should say sorry to them yourself that please forgive me and I will never make a mistake again,If Partners Will Be WiseIf the love between both of you will be more than the limit, then the friend will have come home and love will have started all of a sudden, then the partner will agree with the ride only.But if the matter is a bit serious, and you have spoken many times, but still nothing is affecting the partner, then we move to the next point. (2)You don't have to talk about the same topic again and again, suppose you said swari, yet your partner did not agree, then you call, say sorry, you are not agreeing, then you are saying sorry, you do not have to do this.The value of sorry will be down, what you have to do is say sorry for the first time.As if you do not remember about that mistake, you have forgotten, do not talk on that topic, it means that if you have made some mistake, you are talking about that topic again and again, then it is one-sided.You are reminding more and more you are reminding me again and again that if I have made a mistake, then this thing is not to be done,Once you say sorry for the first time, if he is not agreeing then talk ok next time as normal as if nothing has happened, you will feel that he is behaving a little bit rudely, that he is not talking properly. So it's okay, give a little time, it will be right on its own, but you will say sorry to him again and again for the same thing and you would likeIf the partner starts talking together and starts laughing, it is not possible immediately, but if you say sorry again and again, your respect will decrease, the partner will feel that it is his fault, so he is saying sorry again and again.

You should do some extra odnary for him, for example, give a gift to him by writing a chit in it and saying sorry, but you should keep giving gifts to your partner, which makes Patna happy and you take some time out for them.Take them out for a walk together so that their mind have a light experience that makes them happy (3)magic pointYou must tell your partner that OK, I will not do it now, maybe I have made a big mistake and I don't think you will ever agree if it is okay then it doesn't matter, I will never bother you orI will do it, you will not have any problem from my side, you will not agree, it is okay to take your anger, I will give you I will not try to persuade at all, and one more thing is not to be really celebrated by saying this, what will happen to it, friends, this will work in river psychology, as if you have seen someone, then you will refuse anything.So it will do the same thing, if someone stops you for something that you don't do it, then people are crazy to do the same thing.If you have experimented from all sides, then try using river psychology.thank you everyone friends